Say hello to Famylia!

When it comes to co-parenting after divorce or separation,
taking the emotion out of the communication between you both keeps the conflict at its lowest.
Concentrate on your children without the “extra noise” from your ex.


re you tired of the abuse from your ex? Do you just want to get the necessary information about the kids across and be done with it?

Famylia is your online co-parenting communication solution for divorced or separated parents. Through your feedback on the pitfalls of tools currently in the market and your needs, we have built a secure online hub that reduces unnecessary conflict and helps separate your relationship as an ex partner and focus on your relationship as a co-parent. Communicate with your ex only about the kids and feel safe and secure that your communications are monitored for any abusive or disrespectful language.

Research has shown, the biggest indicator on how children fare during a divorce or separation is the emotional availability of the parent. It is in your children’s best interest to keep ongoing conflict as low as possible. Famylia is the premier tool to keep your parenting communication on track. We have provided a platform focused on all the key information that needs to be shared to more effectively co-parent while adding extra protection to prevent abuse and any further conflict escalation. Receive holistic support connecting any third parties involved in your parenting dispute to your two way communication portal and retrieve all communications logged stored in our secure information bank. Co-parenting during separation made easy!


  Secure Two Communication Portal

You and your ex-partner are the only one with unique log in codes connection you both to the site. No access for children, new partners or third parties unless permission is given.

Shared Calendar

Keep track of who has the children when, special events, school holidays and trips to Nana’s! Request change in times and days in one central location.


Raising children is expensive! Keep all invoices, analyse spending on the children, and request part payments without the unnecessary conflict.

Children Updates

Create individualised profiles for each of the children and share/receive crucial updates about the children during each parent’s parenting time without the drama.

Monitoring & Translation

Tired of the abusive language? Upgrade to our premium service and all communications from your ex are monitored and translated to be child focused prior to being posted on the portal.

Information Storage

Upcoming court date? Meeting with the lawyer/counsellor/mediator? All communication entered into the Famylia website by parents, third parties or Famylia are stored in secure, central location and can be accessed by request.



eading this and thinking, I have no issues with conflict or abuse. Would Famylia be worthwhile for us if we are low conflict or still together? Does one spouse or ex frequently travel domestically or internationally? Do Fly in Fly Out (“FIFO”) or Drive in Drive Out (“DIDO”) work?

This organising and scheduling tool helps keep everyone “in the loop” even whilst spending time away. Our basic level of service provides a central location to store all information relating to the children. The parent away can keep abreast of all the happenings, have a reminder set for special occasions whilst away and receive pictures and updates allowing involvement even when distance is an issue. Frequently FIFO parents crave the contact and feel isolated from their children and partner while on site. Famylia gives you the platform to keep the communication up to date, never “missing a beat” in your co-parenting routine.

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Per Month

Access to all functions
3rd party access optional
monitoring for abusive language
“child focused” translation of content

Per Month

Access to all functions
3rd party access optional
montioring for abusive language
“child focused” translation of content

Per 10 blocks a year

Access to all functions
3rd party access optional
montioring for abusive language
“child focused” translation of content
Bundle packages available for legal, mediation or counselling clients
with or without monitoring and translation functions


We are a team of entrepreneurs & techies with deep expertise in parenting and communication

Lacy Gow
Co-Founder/Divorce Mediator & Lawyer

Child of a messy divorce and domain expert helping parents reduce conflict.

Gordon Gow
Co-Founder/Tech Entrepreneur

Commercial and financial guru running the day to day business operations.



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